Cheat Up

Why do people cheat?  Is it because people can’t get everything they need from one person or is it that there just a butt hole that can’t commit to one person or anyone for that matter. But when some people cheat they cheat with people that don’t treat them as well as the person there with, or don’t have as much money. There just not better than the person there with at all. I don’t understand that if you’re going to cheat with someone cheat with someone that is better than what you have cheat up.  That means cheat with someone that has more money than the person your with a better house, car, or something to contribute better than the person you with at least equal to you or the person your with now. Don’t cheat down people cheat with other people that have less money than them or more kids than the person there with. Sometimes the person may or may not have a job, and be on federal assistance, and not trying to better their self. The person cheating could be with someone that has a good job making money has their own place and their own car.  Unless there married and then he or she could have had all that before they were together and may or may not have any kids. But instead of keeping that person you go and cheat with someone that has bunch of kids not a good job if they have one at all and they may not want a job. The person cheating could be a millionaire but he or she would cheat with someone that has no money and no where to stay and the person cheating would buy them everything a place to stay, a car, give them money anything they need. Why do all of that when you could have just cheated with someone that has as much money as you or at least close to it maybe even more that way you can move on from the person your with to something better than what you had. Why waste your time trying to upgrade someone your cheating with instead of keeping what you have that is already better than what you’re cheating with. Or just cheat up and then you could end it with the person your with because obviously you’re not happy and you could be with someone that can take care of you and treat you they way you want to be treated. Cheaters always take short cuts in life and in the end people that cheat end up hurting them self more than anyone else.

The 24 Hour Hater

  This person is usually around you all the time and they call their self your friend. They go out to the club with you, shop with you there one of your closet friends. But every time you bring up something good that happened in your life they always have something negative to say about it. This person is your 24 hour hater. For example you could tell them you went on an interview for a new job and instead of saying that’s good I hope you get it. They say you probably won’t get it so why waste your time thinking about it. Or you could tell them you’re going back to school to get your college degree and they would say why you still won’t find a good job in this recession. This person is never positive they hate on every positive thing you do in your life anything you do to try to better yourself this person hates on it. A 24 hour hater could be male or female and they are always person that you consider to be one of your best friends. Sometimes they can even be a family member. But in realty you never notice how negative they are because your use to hearing them say negative things to you all the time. Eventually this negativity starts to rub off on you and you start to think that you can’t accomplish goals you have set for yourself and you start to second guess yourself. At one point in my life I had my own 24 hour hater this person would text me, call me we would talk and hang out all the time. I considered this person to be one of my best friends.  But every time I would tell this person a new idea I had for a business or something good I was going to do in my life. This person always had something negative to say about it. I had to step back and think about why I was starting to second guess myself I realized the negative things this person would say to me I was starting to believe. So I ended my friendship with this person. If you have someone like this in your life you should cut them out of your life because there not encouraging you there only bringing you down and you don’t need negative people in your life. I know that this next statement is going to sound like I’m contradicting myself but if you think about I’m right. In a way you should congratulate your 24 hour hater because there your motivator and you always want to prove this person wrong and succeed in life. Like I always say my success is a hater’s poison.